Apa yang kamu mahu?

Nota ringkas, peringatan untuk penulis. Jika dpt memberi iktibar pada orang lain, alhamdulillah..

1. Sering saja kita dengar orang bertanyakan pendapat, mendengarnya dan menilai dahulu sblm berkata apa2. Itu adabnya. Persoalannya, kenapa kita utarakan soalan pada orang lain? Kerana kita mahukan buah fikiran mereka supaya dapat membuat keputusan yang lebih baik, inshaAllah.
Tapi apa yang berlaku pada kebanyakan masyarakat sekarang secara umumnya mereka bertanya sekadar melepaskan batuk di tangga dalam erti kata lain, saja nak tanya. kenapa saya kata begini? sebab akhirnya mereka hanya nakkan orang bersetuju saja dengan keputusan yang dah memang ada dlm benak mereka. sesuatu yang sukar utk difahami, bukan? kalau begitulah kemahuannya, saya tak nampak di mana pentingnya untuk si polan itu bertanya. noktah.

2. Berbuatlah apa yg kamu perkatakan. (rujuk as-saff:2-3)
Saya suka memerhati masyarakat di sekeliling saya. Diharap dapat dijadikan sebagai pedoman dan pengajaran dlm hidup ini, inshaAllah. Bila dikongsi bersama mereka yang disayangi lagilah bagus. Semoga bermanfaat buat semua, begitulah doa saya. Kadang2 tanpa kita sedar, kita telah menasihati org lain supaya berbuat baik, tapi kita sendiri tak mengamalkannya. Saya akui ianya sesusatu yang agak menyedihkan. mungkin diri sendiri tak perasan akan kekurangan kita itu. Untuk org lain menegur pula, agak sukar apatah lagi bila diri sendiri sebenarnya bukanlah orang yang mudah menerima pendapat org lain. Moga Allah lembutkan hati ini. Natijahnya, saya cumalah insan biasa, yg tidak lari daripada membuat kesilapan.

3.Teguran
Tegurlah saya dengan teguran yang membina dan bukannya yang membinasakan. Caranya, dengan datang pada saya secara baik dan tunjukkan jalan kepada saya untuk memperbetulkan kesilapan saya. Bukannya menegur dengan nada yg agak keras hingga bisa hinggap ke telinga org lain sampai memalukannya dan tidak memberi apa2 jalan untuk dia perbaiki kesilapannya. Lebih menyedihkan lagi jika dia dibiarkan begitu saja selepas ditegur. Bukanlah manja yang saya rintihkan, sebaliknya saya rasa itulah cara yang terbaik dalam mendidik seseorang secara efektif kerana terkesan di hati mereka.
Allahu alam..

"Ya Tuhan kami, berikanlah rahmat kepada kami dari sisiMu dan sempurnakanlah petunjuk yang lurus bagi kami dalam urusan kami." ameen.
Doa ashabul kahfi (rujuk al-kahf: 10)

rindu

*Khas buat mereka yg dirindui selalu: family, relatives, teachers and friends..jauh di mata tetapi sentiasa dekat di hati dan dlm doa ku..

Sekian lama ia berputik
Kini kian mekar
Harumnya seperti kenanga
Cantiknya umpama mawar
Indahnya bak gugusan melur di kepala.

Wajah kalian cuma mampu ku bayangkan
Tak dapat ku temukan sekarang..
Duhai hati yang menggamit RINDU
Bersabarlah...

cigarettes

I don't understand, why do people like to smoke? What on earth do they get from burning their money? Don't they know the consequences of it? Even if they knew about it that smoking may cause lung cancer, chronic bronchitis or emphysema etc., they still smoke :( Pathetic! And I don't understand either, despite all the advertisements saying smoking is bad for health, we still have and allow cigarettes selling everywhere? Are we encouraging the environment or trying to overcome this problem, here? Confused @.@
And for smokers out there.. Don't you love your family, relatives and friends? While you puffing the smokes proudly in front of us-the passive smokers, you are actually killing us silently. Don't you realize that? Is that how you show your love to us? Or you just hate us so much, you wanna kill us this way? *Now, am too emotional* Enough of you putting yourself in danger, please don't do the same to us.. If you want to smoke, do it elsewhere, far away from us so that the particles won't settle in our lungs. And please smoke at an open area where there's no non-smokers hang around because in a small, poor ventilated room, you still exposing us to the risk if we entered the room after you finished your business there. It's even better if you can quit smoking and lead a healthy lifestyle :D In the end, you'll realize how much money you can save per month after you stop smoking..Isn't that great?! We all know it's difficult, but try and put an endless effort to stop, insyaAllah, you'll manage to quit :)
Note: The cigarettes contain lots of noxious materials such as tar, nicotine, nitrosamines, benzopyrene, hydrogen cyanide, ammonia, toxic irritants etc.. and once you burnt it, you'll activating them all. Through inhalation and absorption of the gasses plus the unseen detrimental materials, that's when you'll get the trouble. That is how it kills....
Read more:
http://jnci.oxfordjournals.org/cgi/reprint/91/14/1194
http://www.ehealthmd.com/library/smoking/smo_cigarettes.html

Amor

I think this entry is the most difficult one. To talk about love.
Someone came to me and asked me: Sis, what's love like? How do you know it's love?
I was stunned and smiled; my mind was working so hard to find the answer as I don't want to disappoint her. I couldn't watch that face.
Sorry for taking so much time to answer your question..
To be honest, I'm not the best person to describe anything regarding love. I never have any experience to share with you, darling. I understand, the kind of love you referring to. Take it this way. I supposed it's not the same but still is applicable :D When u missed ur prayer, you feel bad and disappointed with yourself and seems like whole day wasn't on your side because you wanted to be the best for Him; when you read or listened to the seerah, you'll touch by the sacrifices of the Messenger and wish you could be there with him, be part of him; you miss your family when you are far away from them, you care and cried when you hear them suffer... Why do you feel these way? It's all because of love and affection..
I hope this could somehow help you to define the feeling you had. Maybe its not perfect, but I supposed, it's close enough.
this is one of my favorite song sang by my favorite singer :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XIbl8QsnJkw&feature=related

choices in life

Should I be silent,
Since silence is a bliss..
or should I express what I felt inside?
And omit not the truth that lies
In pursuing the path of happiness
Like the chirping birds flying in the skies

Freedom to talk
Freedom to write
Freedom to do anything
While many become ignorant
Are they really the freedom we are seeking for?
Or merely a rebellious heart that shaken for long?

Choose while you still can
Aware of the storm that hitting your heart
Does it bring you to the soothing light?
Or is just a whisper, to darkest side?

What should we do now?
What choice do we have?
Do our decisions will affect the world?
Should we stick to the trend played by others?
Becoming decent followers knowing not what was the game?

Think wise,
The neurons are there,
Synapse and stimulating each other,
and a soul that touches others
Why wasted the gift from Him?

So reflect, weigh and decide
Make a choice you won't regret
And pray for the best
Let Allah do the rest..

Happy Mother's Day

Mother's Day is the best day for mothers out there. No matter where you are.. Of course, to appreciate them is not only on this date but suppose to be everyday. However, 9th May 2010 marked another special day for mothers around the globe.
Talking to my mom over the phone has been a routine for me weekly..This time, she has more good stories related to mother's day, her heartfelt, her enquiries and her gratitude to Allah SWT as she is still able to see her children grow and lead their own life. I'm touched by the way mom said this.
I remembered she told me years ago when I was 14. She has her own dream, she pictured herself working as an English teacher, busy marking exam papers, having students in front of her and make her own money, buy her own desired stuffs... Allah knows best for her.. Grandpa was always working outstation while Granny always sick. Granny suffered from pneumonia and with lack of medicinal treatment plus her reluctant to see the doctor, worsened her condition and past away at the age of 55. So, mom has to take over Granny's duty and took care of all the household, from cleaning the house, preparing meals, washing the dishes and clothes etc. Mom decided to quit her school and finished her secondary school till form 3 to look after her 5 siblings because it's too much for her. How devastated she could be during that time to forget her own ambition for others' happiness. I couldn't dare to imagine. Mom, your sacrifices is very noble to me :) As the first child, she gave a lot to her family. Telling me your life stories once in a while made me realized, you are actually peeping your dreams with me. To flip through the memories you had and shared them with me has made me feel so special. For I know, that you don't actually tell people even to your siblings what you felt because you are strong inside. You hold things to yourself and find your own way to heal your soul. I can't imagine if I'm in your shoe.
Reflecting back of what I had was totally different from what mom had gone through. I am blessed and will always be for having you as my mom. Everything you did was the best for me. You never want to see me going through the hardships like you had and tries to protect me till the present day. I love you mom! Happy mother's day and Happy birthday :)

Human Being

I have a chance
But I have to let it go
For I too shy to make it a go?

I have my thoughts
As strong as they may seem
People will judge me
As an insane

No matter what you may think
I have to say no
For I have my reason
That I can't ignore!

Please understand me
As I too feel the pain
Sometimes I can't hide it
Because,
I am just a human being..