maturity

some people think they know lots about maturity and they even think they are matured enough to talk about it ;) well, for me, being mature is something that will develop on its own..learn from our own mistake is one way, learn from other people's mistake is another..the important key here is, we must be open minded....terima segala kekurangan dlm diri..ambil masa sejenak, fikir sblm berkata2, fikir sblm bertindak..terlajak perahu blh diundur, terlajak kata buruk padahnya..
bila bercakap ttg kematangan, ia lbh merujuk pd pemikiran..the way we think make us who we are..bkn perlakuan semata2....fikir2 kan lah..dan saya sgt respect pd org yg berfikiran matang! :)
usia bkn satu kayu ukur kpd kematangan..kekdg, org muda lbh matang drpd org yg lbh tua..tp harus ingat dlm apa jua teguran, harus berhikmah...yg muda harus hormat pd yg lbh tua...dan org yg ditegur harus muhasabah diri...jgn cepat melatah..sit down, take a deep breath, relax and ponder....itu kan lbh baik :P
take home msg:
1.belajar drpd kesilapan
2.have respect to others (org tua ke, kwn2 ke, sesape je lah)
3.berfikir pjg sblm bertindak